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How to let go and become the person you are

It doesn’t matter who agrees with you, or who they thought you were before. You can’t run from yourself, so you can either spend your life repressing who you are, or you stand up and take your place where you belong.

I don’t know everything, but I do know that if you want to feel good every day, then you have to say enough!

I get it! I’ve been in a place where life was so busy taking care of the people in your life, or the things on your list, that you take the backseat to you. You take a backseat to what you believe and who you are on the inside.

When you are out of sync with that person, you begin to minimize yourself, and life becomes stressful. Your facade can only last for so long before you just can’t do it anymore. Eventually, you will no longer care to keep it up and protect those who you care about. In turn, you’ll hurt yourself instead.

When you stop going through the motions and step into the person you feel inside, your life will shift, and you shine through. Your energy will rise, and you will lift those around you.

Many times, I have felt the need to pretend to be someone I am not. I have minimized myself to fit my family, friends, and associates and be who I thought they wanted me to be.

We’ve all done it at some point, but in the end, it’s always just you.

The thing is, you’re happiest, most creative, and most compelling when you’re true to yourself. Your most powerful point is when you let down your mask.

You are not alone. In fact, you’ve never been alone. Other women have been there and understand.

For me, stepping into the person I am inside forced me to stop being held back and propelled me to help those who are still trying to figure it out.

When I found other like-minded women to share with and learn from, my life got easier.

Together, we decided to start a group of women who are ready to support each other, and women who are ready to rise.

Please join Karen O’Connor from Australia, Marie-Anne Lecoeur from France, and me from the US for The Next Phase – Style your Life – A Facebook group.

This free group includes an international connection of like-minded women who are ready to rise.

If you’re ready for real conversation and connections, and ready to up-level all areas of your life, join us!

Each month, The Next Phase – Style Your Life will include the following:

• Three free master classes per month including information on fashion and style, empowering women, reinvention, clarity, lifestyle, and health and fitness!

• Monthly interviews with top influencers and everyday women rising!

• Inspiration & Connection!

Please join us for the Next Phase – Style your life:

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