It's no secret
How you feel about yourself is not the secret you might think it is.
It’s sad that it is normal for women to go through stages of lowered self-confidence, self-value and happiness. Life should be light and easy, no matter how busy you are.
So what happens when the one who has always taken care of everyone, the one everyone turns to get the tough jobs done starts to falter? What happens when suddenly life becomes unbearable because of circumstances you feel are outside of your control overwhelm you? Then, for the first time ever, you begin to feel like you are no longer in control. That secure feeling of knowing what is right for you.
What happens when the one who has pushed to excel at life in career and family falls down? Who do you go to help pick you up, or are your own expectations of yourself too high, so instead of asking for help or reaching out, you withdraw inside. You understand what it means to retreat into the darkness and disconnect yourself from the most important people around you, and the ones that really do care.
It doesn’t matter if you’re on your way up or down, how you feel about yourself directly affects the way everyone around you reacts to you. Whether or not, you think your actions are portraying what is happening inside, your subconscious tells the whole story with or without your permission.
I have been on top, and I have fallen to some pretty low levels in my life, and some instances are still painful to think about. I get it. Life isn’t always what you would expect, but it can change.
Everything can change and turn around, and it can happen in an instant. It’s really more than just believing that it can and will. It’s the combination of your beliefs and taking direct action.
It’s ok to start where you are. You do not need to reach any internal made up level to start. Start where you are and take the first step. Believe that your future and everything in your thoughts is possible.
You are not alone, and it is so possible. It’s a decision of what you want and how you want to live. It’s about what you want your life to mean, and it is so possible to step up and move toward the life you know you were expected to live
It’s always the simplest shifts that make the biggest difference. I would love to talk with you. Please schedule a free discovery call here.